This is a very old article that my friend use to forward around and around, but today seen it again, I guess is meaningful for her. IS chinese again !
遇到你最爱的人，然后体会到爱的感觉；
因为了解被爱的感觉，所以才能发现最爱你的人；
当你经历过爱人与被爱，学会了爱，才会知道什么是你需要的，也才会找到最适合你，能够相处一辈子的人
你最爱的，往往没有选择你
最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；
而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，
只是在最适合的时候出现的那个人。
没有人是故意要变新的，他爱你的时候是真的爱你，
可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你的；
同样的，他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你。
当一个人不爱你要离开你，
你要问自己还爱不爱她，
如果你也不爱她了，千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开；
如果你还爱她，你应该会希望他过的幸福快乐，
希望他跟真正爱的人在一起，决不会阻止，
你要是组织它得到真正的幸福，就表示你已经不爱她了，
而如果你不爱他，你又有什么资格指责他变心呢？
爱不是占有，
你喜欢月亮，不可能把月亮拿下来放在面盆里，
但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。
换句话说，你爱的一个人，也可以用另一种方法拥有，
让爱人成为生命里的永远回忆，
如果你这真爱一个人，就要爱他原来的样子，爱他的好，也爱他的坏；
爱他的优点，也爱他的缺点，
决不能因为爱他，就希望它变成自己所希望的样子，
万一变不成就不爱他了。
真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的，
你只知道无论何时何地，心情好坏，你都希望这个人陪着你；
真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守，也就是毫无丝毫要求。
毕竟，感情必然付出，而不是只想获得；
分开考试一种必然的考验，
如果你们感情不够稳固，只好认输，
真爱是不会变怨恨的。
When you meet someony ou love the most, there afre you would know the feeling of loving someone;
Because you know how it feels to loved by someone, that's why you can discover the one who loves you most.
When after you have gone through the time you love and be loved, you learn the true meaning of love, and then only you know what you requires in your love, and will find the most suitable partner, who can live with you throughout your life.
the one you love the most, most of the time didn't choose you;
the one who loves you most, most of the time is not the one you love the most;
and the most long lasting one, is not the one you love the most, and not love you most,
but is just that he/she appears at the most suitable time.
Nobody wants to change their heart delibrately, when he/she loves you, he/she really loves you from their heart, but when he doesn't love you, is the truth, when he loves you that time, there is no ways to pretend that he doesn't love you.
when a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself whether you love him or not. If you don't love him anymore, don't because of sympathy and unwilling to let him go; if you still do love him, you should wish him to lead better and hppier life, hope that he get someone that loves each other , without stopping him. if you are trying to top him from getting the true love, it means you no longer loves him. if you no longer loves him, then you are not qualified to accuse him of losing his heart on you.
Love is not about possesion,
You may love the moon alot, but you cannot grab the moon and put inside your house,
but the moonlight still can shine into your room.
Just for example, if you love a person, you can use another type of possesion method, which allow the person you love become an eternal memories in your life,
if you really love a person, you should love her original self - love all her good sides and love all her bad sides, love her strengths and love her weakness, NEVER because of you are loving her, you hope to change her to become what you have expected, when the changing process is not successful then the love may be a failure too.
To truly love somone, there is no reason behind it,
You know that, no matter what time, what place, good or bad mood, you will wish her to accompany you;
True relationship is about two persons endure the toughest moment together and make no request about each other. after all, relationship and love needs sacrifice, not about the result; Break up is an absolute test, if your love is not stable, then surrender is the only option.
TRUE love will not change into vengeance.
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